
Sometimes we make decisions, that we know are setting us up for failure and problems.
We spend time with people we know we should not. We to go places where we should not be. If you know that group of work friends likes to go drinking a lot after work, and some of them are sharing information or doing things they should not, start to have other plans and not be available.
It is not if that group is going to end up in unpleasant situations at work. It is when.
Continuing to flirt with these situations and people, is like playing with a grenade thinking you can handle it and then being surprised when things blow up in your face!
Do not be deceived into a false sense of security by others or by yourself.