Help people by giving them the help they want, not the help they do not.
If you try to force people to accept what they do not want, they will usually ignore it or squander it. You may see a valid way in which they do need assistance but that does not mean your forced upon them assistance will be valued.
You may be right about what is needed but if they do not see it, you cannot force them to. If you are really upset about their response, ask yourself why? Does it have to do with the person or you?
Check your motives and attitude and if everything is all clear, you still need to respect their response and let things go.
Provide help, not pressure.
